Essays
The Quiet Flourishing
What precedes academic results
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Introduction Paragraph
There are often habits of excellence that take root long before any visible and measurable progress manifests itself. What are those consistent routines, healthy dispositions, and compounding gains that accrue quietly in a child, long before results ever appear? There are a few (astonishingly rare) students who could be considered as genuine geniuses*. However, this is not the excellence that most families are seeking, and we name this rare exception with neither admiration nor resentment. True genius, ever imbalanced, carries its own cost.
We also cannot excuse the jack-of-nil trades and master of nothing, who fails to grow into a thoughtful human with interests, curiosity, and delight in learning. Instead, we seek the process of becoming genuinely good with steady commitment at a number of things across a number of areas. Each child can embark on such a journey, applying themselves over time to their unique trajectory of excellence, which is formed long before it is displayed. We must attend to those quiet habits and dispositions, so easily overlooked, that appear long before results can be measured or rewarded.
Reading Paragraph What have I noticed quietly work over time in children, especially boys, even when nobody at first saw any visible results? When I think of the thousands of pupils who genuinely flourished before and after the grades arrived, there was a pattern I saw repeated across different income backgrounds, families, and cultures: Maintaining a daily habit of reading for pleasure and knowledge. This quickly comes to mind as the first quiet evidence. Other skills exist and must not be ignored; nevertheless, reading remains a robust pillar that always serves them well at the right time - and in their own time. This quiet habit does not draw attention to itself - the very act is often confused with not doing something - but regularly and reliably preceded an enduring excellence and love of learning.
Absence reveals as much as presence. From lived experience, I recognise the devastating harm wrought by neglect of reading. Not immediately revealed as failure, it becomes evident in the absence of much that is good and long-lasting in a trajectory of excellence. Depth, engagement, and resilience to name a few. As a teacher, I became painfully aware of the limits in my vocation to affect change on a mind not regularly stretching and soaking itself (this seems critical) in good reading material. My finding is that those students without a consistent, voluntary reading habit - both fiction for imagination fuel, and non-fiction for breadth - struggle to truly meet and sustain their potential. I also ask, “What did those boys and girls miss or misunderstand early on, the ones who burned out, resolutely checked out, or permanently disengaged?” I can testify that it is a terrible experience to witness the twinkling light and enthusiasm leave the eyes, replaced by a dulled stare. Those pupils I remember as most diligent in the pursuit of wisdom and skill were never under-served in guidance to truly appreciate (thus truly commit themselves to) deep and proper reading. Far from absent, it became their tool to independently train and wield for advancing themselves.
Difference exists at the level of identity. I noticed a specific, effective type of reading among those pupils who do not simply perform tasks, but regard themselves as learners. No matter the age or level, they take pride in their intellects. They not only follow teacher diktats, but pursue fits of curiosity, ink-staining the tips of their noses within books. Take it from me, the best learners do this without being asked or compelled, and without needing constant instruction or validation. Parents often confide that this initiative and hungry, self-directed study is what they desire for their children, but greatly fear getting wrong, especially when navigating the school-industrial complex. Yet, a good teacher spots wherever a consistent love and practice of reading exists, because those pupils cannot help but present themselves as robust, curious, bright-eyed, and quick-thinking. I keep returning to those most diligent and successful in the pursuit of excellence as the ones who take clear pride in being a reader, who loves books and enjoys the discipline of consistent, focused reading.
Reading is a reliable signpost for formation, rather than mere compliance and task performance. As an activity, it reveals the behaviour, character, and preference of tasks under freedom. A more important qualification than people realise at first; how does one act without compulsion? As a free and voluntary activity - though strengthened by doses of critical comprehension and analysis - reading exposes how a pupil directs their
attention when nothing is measured, rewarded, or assigned. I notice this helps to explain why topics of interest from years prior can be quickly recalled: the mind is glad to revisit the content. With the presence of such exuberant and unshackled minds, class or tutorial discussions are enriched by numerous, unexpected “Did you know, sir?” comments. What I may or not know, in such instances, may or may not be directly relevant to the subject; contributions are occasionally insightful, frequently interesting, and, from a pedagogical perspective, always most welcome. Teaching enthusiastic, independent readers becomes like conducting an orchestra; partnership and collaboration both vertically (sensei > gakusei) and horizontally (peers) emerge organically, not from school slogans. Such teaching is a profoundly enjoyable experience.
“But what about their performance?” “Do they have enough time for homework?” I cannot answer these questions definitively, for the school-industrial complex can be ruthless to all, parent and child alike. Be encouraged: not all children that really read on a regular basis - again, this is especially true for boys - always score the highest grades, since school is often dull and uninteresting. Grades maketh not the man. Quiet reading for the sake of slow-cooking pleasure, curiosity, and acquisition of knowledge must be safeguarded as protected time. So long as children continue to bury their noses in nutritious books that require chewing over, then I have rarely if ever seen them not do well in exams.
Conclusion
To conclude this essay on the first discipline of a successful pupil, there are quiet, reliable signs that long precedes results, yet defines a trajectory of individual excellence. Reading is one of these trustworthy signals. Chosen and sustained engagement with worthwhile books builds an observable though tricky-to-measure residue, without which excellence rarely lasts. Neither brash nor pretentious, it is a practice that sustains flourishing whether success arrives early, late, or uneven.
Footnotes
*In my decade and a half of teaching and coaching, I have possibly encountered a handful, and no more. Maybe, for the good of humanity, such savants should continue to study obsessively to depths that the rest of us can only goggle at in bemusement. Theirs is almost a divine and burdensome gift of myopia beyond imitation; an ability to delve so deeply, suffering loss or obstacles in other areas of life